Bermula dari ingin cari thread yg baik untuk referesi membuat pernikahan TS lebih kuat. TS beranikan diri menulis thread sederhana ini.
dibanding diforum H2H, TS merasa lbh cocok di forum ini, jadi mudah2an ga salah kamar.

Menjadi pendengar memerlukan usaha keras, tetapi itu merupakan salah satu tindakan nyata dan perwujudan cinta ke pasangan kita karena menjadigood listener, memberi pesan yg jelas kepada pasangan kita bahwa you are important for me

Berikut cara yang membantumu menjadi pendengar yang baik :










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You can hear your loved ones no matter how poorly your ears work. I know deaf people who are able to hear with their hearts. And I know people with perfect ears who drive their families crazy with their lack of hearing. I know about this firsthand because our children used to get upset when I read the paper and watched television while they were talking to me. They'd say, "Dad, you're not listening." I would repeat all the things they said to prove I was listening, but they told me that being able to repeat their words was not the same thing as hearing them. Hearing means listening attentively to what they had to say. Today when one of the children wants to talk to me, I put down the paper, turn off the television and listen to what he has to tell me. . . . I also have learned how to say "m-m-m" in many ways and to stop trying to solve everyone's problems. They thank me for listening. It helps them to clarify and solve their problems
Bernie Siegel