No one is asked to be born in this world. We live in this complicated world where actually we are the one who makes it even more complicated when it should be easy. When we were young, we can’t wait to get older and do some serious heavy stuff that matters. As a child, we live day by day by imagining how it will be like when we can reach our dream, what do we want to become in the future. Being a child, we really feel like anything is possible, everything is fun and there’s no stressed about it. We didn’t think much about how life goes on back then when we were a child, we just… you know… enjoy every second of it. Then it comes a phase that we call adolescent time. This phase feels pretty funny, actually. At this time, we feel bold, strong and fearless. We like to challenge ourselves into bigger things without paying attention to some risks that may occur. When we met our opposite sex, we feel that tingling thing inside our body that we think it is love, where it’s nothing but a simple crush. Having a crush of someone during adolescent time is a hell of a ride. We can’t stop thinking about that person, every time we interact with that person, even just a quick one, it feels like heaven. The exciting part is when we get to date that person, like life couldn’t get any greater at that time. When adolescent time seems fading away, we lead ourselves into the phase of being an adult. Adult is someone that we can look up to, at least that was what we thought during our childhood. Any problems? Just leave it to the adult, they’ll fix it. Now how if being an adult is in our shoes now? Then, it means that we do have to aware that we have to be a responsible and mature person. Did you still remember when you were a child you begged that you really wanted to be an adult? Well, there you go. You have it. What? Now you wish you want to be back as a child instead of living your life as an adult? Okay, I get it. Being and adult is not as easy as we imagined when we were a child. Being an adult, it means we have to set things now by ourselves for the future. We make decisions, only this time it will matter for the rest of our life. We often got hurt, but we can’t let ourselves drowned in desperation, we can’t be selfish like we used to, we have to make up our minds in lots of things. Being an adult is the time to prove it to the world that we can make it as a human being, that we are useful and not a failure. Having a crush to someone is barely the highlight, we need to find our soulmate, to be bond in a sacred marriage. To find our best half, we have to be a better person, that’s what they said. But yeah, sometimes words are easy to be said than to be proved. Insecure feeling often occurs. We often feel like something is not right. When what we have dreamed of since we were a child is not accomplished, then we realize that life is not as easy as we thought it would be. Life is about making choices. Life is about us trying to move forward. Rejection and loss may occur as the obstacles and could damage us physically and psychologically, but then again it’s our choice to let ourselves keep mourning restlessly or to get up and consider those obstacles as the lesson of life.