Keinginan Muhammad untuk tidur (berhubungan seksual) dengan anak perempuan dibawah umur tidak hanya dengan Aisha, sebagaimana dijelaskan oleh Abbas Ibn Hisham dan Ibn Hajar yang mengatakan:

Rasul Allah mengatakan, ketika dia melihat Um Habib bint Abbas yang masih balita: “Ketika dia mencapai umur selagi saya masih hidup, maka saya akan menikahinya.” Pada waktu itu, anak itu berumur tiga tahun dan Muhammad berumur enampuluh tahun. Muhammad meninggal dua tahun kemudian, dan berharap anak perempuan itu berusia enam atau sembilan tahun seperti Aisha agar dapat dinikahinya.

Ini tidak mengada-ada, anda dapat membaca apa yang ditulis oleh Ibn Hajar dalam bukunya Al-Isaba fi tamyis al-Sahaba, vol.IV, hal.422 dan yang dicatat oleh Imam Suhaili dalam Rawd al-Unuf, vol.III, hal.66.



1. Mencontohkan mengawini anak ingusan berusia 6 th dan menidurinya pada usia 9 th.

Sahih Bukhari. Vol 7, Book 62. Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). Hadith 065.
Narrated By 'Aisha:
That the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriagewhen she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death)."

Sahih Muslim. Book 8. Marriage. Hadith 3310.
'Aisha (Allah be pleased with her) reported: Allah's Apostle (may peace be upon him) married me when I was six years old, and I was admitted to his house when I was nine years old.

2. Menyatakan bahwa "legitnya" Aisha yang berumur 9 th secara fisik, seperti tharid (hidangan roti dan daging), tidak ada bandingannya.

Sahih Bukhari. Volume 4, Book 55, Number 623:
Narrated Abu Musa:
Allah's Apostle said, "Many amongst men reached (the level of) perfection but none amongst the women reached this level except Asia, Pharaoh's wife, and Mary, the daughter of 'Imran. And no doubt, the superiority of 'Aisha to other women is like the superiority of Tharid (i.e. a meat and bread dish) to other meals."


3. Menganjurkan untuk mengawini anak2 gadis perawan yang masih ingusan sehingga bisa meraba2 mereka dan bermain2 dengan mereka.

Sahih Bukhari. Vol 7, Book 62. Wedlock, Marriage (Nikaah). Hadith 017.
Narrated By Jabir bin 'Abdullah :
When I got married, Allah's Apostle said to me, "What type of lady have you married?" I replied, "I have married a matron.' He said, "Why, don't you have a liking for the virgins and for fondling them?" Jabir also said: Allah's Apostle said, "Why didn't you marry a young girl so that you might play with her and she with you?'

Menurut hadist-hadis SAHIH berikut ini, Aisah dinikahi Muhammad pada usia 6 tahun dan ditiduri/digauli pada usia 9 th.

Sunan Abu Dawud, Vol. 2, #2116:
"Aisha said, "The Apostle of Allah married me when I was seven years old." (The narrator Sulaiman said: "Or six years."). "He had intercourse with me when I was 9 years old."

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 64
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...khari/062.sbt. html#007.062.064
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old, and then she remained with him for nine years (i.e., till his death).

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 65
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...ml#007.062.065
Narrated 'Aisha: that the Prophet married her when she was six years old and he consummated his marriage when she was nine years old. Hisham said: I have been informed that 'Aisha remained with the Prophet for nine years (i.e. till his death)." what you know of the Quran (by heart)'

Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 88
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...khari/062.sbt. html#007.062.088 Narrated 'Ursa: The Prophet wrote the (marriage contract) with 'Aisha while she was six years old and consummated his marriage with her while she was nine years old and she remained with him for nine years (i.e. till his death).

Sahih Bukhari Volume 5, Book 58, Number 236
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...khari/058.sbt. html#005.058.236
Narrated Hisham's father:
Khadija died three years before the Prophet departed to Medina. He stayed there for two years or so and then he married 'Aisha when she was a girl of six years of age, and he consumed (sic – consummated) that marriage when she was nine years old.

Apakah "consummated the marriage" berarti melakukan hubungan intim? Jawabnya YA.

http://www.exmuslim.com/com/evidence.htm
Argumentasi dari Muslim bahwa pada usia 9 th Aisha sudah haid juga tidak tepat karena menurut hadist-hadist yang sahih pada usia tsb Aisha masih belum haid.

Dari sumber hadist yang sahih, kita bisa melihat bahwa pada usia 9 th saat digauli, Aisha masih belum akil baliq. Bahkan dari hadis2 tsb pada usia sekitar 14-15 saat perang Khaybar, Aisha masih belum haid karena masih bermain dengan boneka. Dalam aturan hukum Islam yang ketat pada jaman Nabi, bermain boneka hanya diperbolehkan bagi anak2 kecil yang belum akil baliq. Kesimpulannya, Aisha belum akil baliq pada usia 9 th saat digauli, bahkan pada usia 14-15 pun saat perang Khaybar dia belum haid.

Sahih Bukhari Volume 8, Book 73, Number 151
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...khari/073.sbt. html#008.073.151
Narrated 'Aisha:
I used to play with the dolls in the presence of the Prophet, and my girl friends also used to play with me. When Allah's Apostle used to enter (my dwelling place) they used to hide themselves, but the Prophet would call them to join and play with me. (The playing with the dolls and similar images is forbidden, but it was allowed for 'Aisha at that time, as she was a little girl, not yet reached the age of puberty.) (Fateh-al-Bari page 143, Vol.13)

Sunan Abu Dawud. Book 36. General Behavior. Hadith 4914.
Narrated By 'Aisha, Ummul Mu'minin : When the Apostle of Allah (pbuh) arrived after the expedition to Tabuk or Khaybar (the narrator is doubtful), the draught raised an end of a curtain which was hung in front of her store-room, revealing some dolls which belonged to her.

He asked: What is this? She replied: My dolls. Among them he saw a horse with wings made of rags, and asked: What is this I see among them? She replied: A horse. He asked: What is this that it has on it? She replied: Two wings. He asked: A horse with two wings? She replied: Have you not heard that Solomon had horses with wings? She said: Thereupon the Apostle of Allah (pbuh) laughed so heartily that I could see his molar teeth.

(SELIPAN : Muhamad pertama mendengar ide utk BURAQ --alias kuda bersayap dua-- dari sini rupanya !)

Alasan bahwa Muhammad mengawini Aisha adalah untuk memperkuat tali persaudaraan dengan "suadara angkatnya" Abu Bakr juga tidak valid karena Abu Bakar jelas keberatan karena mereka adalah saudara angkat. Tetapi Muhammad tetap memaksa dan mengatakan tidak menjadi masalah padahal dia pernah menolak tawaran dari Hamza, saudara angkatnya juga, untuk menikasih puterinya.